whats there not to like?

i mean, being single.

• u can just go out hanging out with any frens u like, without fearing that it wud offend ur specials

• u can pay ur OWN meal without offending ur table mate(s) - well this goes back to the 'bf pays ur (every)meal' principle

• u dont have to be pretennding u like stuffs just becoz ur other half like them

• u dont have to be pretending to interestingly looking at girls shoes while ur gf is busy choosing size at Vincci/nose, (yes, i really pity them. why bother pretending to look at other shoes? ur presence is actually for helping ur gf to choose which one suits her best. so, just look what ure being showed by ur gf. and if u wanna cut it short, just pick either one, and lil compliments will do ;p donwanna get urself into the shoe trouble? split ways. tell her ure going to hv to buy things at men department)

• needless to say, u save ur phone bills (but err.. not really, cuz when u dont hv this 'special' fren, u tend to hv a very good gf and u tend to cantact her like as frequent as ur free time allows u ;p)

• u dont really feel obliged to remember all those 'important dates' - all= theres always the 2nd, 3rd 4th, (well u number them) month anniversary, his/her dad's/ mom's /sister's/brother's/ birthdays, not to mention the rather mandatory each other's bday ;p

• u wont have to listen to the necessary nagging + encouragement + motivation (necessary it IS cuz u actually need it, but ure just so stubborn to realize that)

• u wont have to pick up the wake up call in the midst of ur sweet dreams (usually the girls will hv to make the call, so for girls, u wont have to wake up at 640am to wake ur B making he believes that u actually bangun subuh earlier than he does when ure actually having ur peod.haha)

• u wont worry if u left ur henfon at home cuz u wont get the 'why didnt u pick up my call' scoldings. haha

-believe it or not. statistically speaking, men bring handphones evrywhere rather than women. reason being? one of them the above la. yea2, the scolding part one. haha

• u hv the freedom to chooooose ppl. and the freedom to think 'noo i dont think hes the one' or even 'no way. he CANT be the one' haha (like there are many ppl left to chose from rite? haha)

these are some of the blessings i can think of at this moment. not entirely spoken out of my experience, but yes, thru observations, lain org, lain gayanya, and some from wat ive read.

and u know what? i think sometimes loneliness is beautiful and silence is what u need. just so that u can hear urself more (tho more often than not is just a crapp -like now :P)

me? i kinda got this code understandable btwn me n this fren of mine. like when we're eating alone,or doing things/jalan2 ALONE, we'd call ourselves LOSERS. (gv ourselves the big L finger symbol on our forehead summore) haha but then to think bout it.. wats there to lose about? ure only winning ur own quality time to spend for urself (yeahaha it's called 'Look at the bright side principle' and its very positive, no? ;p )

these are my company when i kononnye having my own quality time (with myself , duh)


Mr. Chocolate brownies ape tah name die..sbenanye sgt yummy kalo kat OU nye S.R. ni i went to J.J's je. ingatkan same je...rupenye yg kat OU lg sedap. cis btol.

Mr. Lamb Pie (im sure it has a different name. but its all bout lamb yg ada di dalam pie. yummy! tak mampu bli lambchop die..pie die pun jd la. sedap gak ;) )

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peyton (of OTH, yeah) did mention that "not knowing is way worse than to know."
and somehow i think i've known a tiny piece of the real taste, and thus currently embracing the singlehood and so far.... yeah, whats there not to like. rite?
(i mean, if ure being one for so long tht u cant remember last time hvg thiis kinda feeling and 39% of ur good frens married and the rest 45% already not single -easily said, ure the only walking singleton- wat else wud u do, rite? go out n haf fun indeedd! ;p)

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time heals old wounds huh?
i dont really think time is the only healing factor, sometimes, it s ppl. or just A person. maybe A she. or maybe A he :) its when u find the rrrrrightttt medication, ur healed . cewah2 konon la kan aku.