Thursday, July 10, 2008

lagi blogthings....




The Keys to Your Life



Anything good that comes in your life will come from your own self reflection.



Don't rely on other people for advice. They will harm you more then help you.



Anything bad in your life comes from sinking to the level of those around you.



Remember to lift people up, and refuse to participate in anything petty.






What Your Taste in Music Says About You



Your musical tastes are intense and rebellious.

You are intelligent... but in a very unconventional way.



You are curious about the world. You love doing something new.

In fact, you enjoy taking risks and doing things most people would shy away from.



You are very physical. It's likely that you're athletic, but not into team sports.

You have the soul of an artist. Beauty and harmony are important to you.

blogthings jiwang mode. haha bluwek wek wek




How You Are In Love



You take a while to fall in love with someone. Trust takes time.



You tend to give more than take in relationships.



You tend to get very attached when you're with someone. You want to see your love all the time.



You love your partner unconditionally and don't try to make them change.



You stay in love for a long time, even if you aren't loved back. When you fall, you fall hard.

Friday, July 4, 2008

why Islam

salaam

well yes i might be the last person to watch this vid. but hey if there's anyone who's also ketinggalan like me, enjoy this vid. masyaAllah. so funny, interesting & best juga. basically about an australian bloke telling how he became a muslim. but yeah, australian he is, susah sket saya nak catch up the slang. hehe


Part 1




Part 2




28:56 "Verily you (O Muhammad s.a.w) guide not whom you like, but Allah guides who He wills. And he knows best those wo are guided."

9:72 "Allah has promised the believers - men and women, - Garden under which rivers flow to dwell therein forever, and beautiful mansions in Gardens of 'Adn (Eden Paradise). But the greatest bliss is the Good Pleasure of Allah. That is the supreme success."

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

on privacy ..

"once u put urself on the internet, it'll never be private anymore. no matter how personal it is to u."

this, has shook me back to reality. cuz
this, is so true.

i went to the blog of fiance of the (now) famous saiful bukhari (funny isnt it all this while only name Syed Mukhtar Bukhari rings a bell, now we hv another bukhary. hehe). one moment her blog has only few frequent visitors, the next, boom. the stat hits millions oredi! whereas her blog is rather personal, bout her daily life, ppl background check her every post. trying to find a single clue on wat actually happened. trying to find an alibi if there's any. it is indeed inevitable for we all know that the internet is world wide web. it connects many (if not all) missing pieces, a place to search for evrything that demand quick answers. well who knows mayb someday this couple's names cud be found on the wikipedia ;) huhuhu

well im not here to write or analyse on this issue as many other qualified (or rather self claimed. hehe) blogger have already wrote on that. but again, it occurred to me that while im happily jotting my loser life here, its no more personal. haha. u know its like the feeling that u donwant ppl to know this one fact bout u, but sumhow u want certain other ppl to acknowledge that. weird but hey its human being and we are all unique to the extent that sometimes we dont even understand our own self!. haha . neways, my point is that, if it is toooo personal, lets not blog it. if u think it is okay, like suam-suam kuku okay, like tade hal punye tak personal langsung okay, then watdahel, lets blab all over our blog kan. then again..this is just a reminder for myself :) but yeah, there's stil the option of staying low. like set ur blog setting to personal setting, wer u can engage password, that only selected ppl on ur list yg bole baca watever u wrote tuh. hmm but then again..... leceh punya kerja laa~


on another note,,me & imang are currently getting obsessed with this angora rabbit (pictures below). we're also playing with the idea of membela natang ni.. haha SOOOO gile CUTE okehhh!!!~ well its just one way to cure our kerinduan terhadap luqman & iqbal. hahaha

tengok nih..


dan lagi satu...


yes, they are rabbits. both of the same breed, the angora rabbit type. super cute. like super. duper.

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

nice story indeed ...

Salam

this story was sent from my aunt to our family's mailing list. i think it's quite interesting as well as a tear jerker too. (but yeah, its quite long so ppl, do survive it ok ;) worth ur reading time i tell u. huhu but no money back guarantee laa..)

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I was born in a secluded village on a mountain. Day by day, my parents plowed the yellow dry soil with their backs towards the sky.

I have a brother who is 3 years younger than me. I wanted to buy a handkerchief, which all girls around me seemed to have. So, one day I stole 50 cents from my father's drawer. Father had discovered about the stolen money right away.

He made me and my younger brother kneel against the wall as he held a bamboo stick in his hand.

'Who stole the money?' he asked.

I was stunned, too afraid to talk. Neither of us admitted to the fault,

so he said, 'Fine, if nobody wants to admit, you two should be beaten!'

He lifted up the bamboo stick. Suddenly, my younger brother gripped father's hand and said,`

Dad, I was the one who did it!' The long stick smacked my brother's back repeatedly.

Father was so angry that he kept on whipping my brother until he lost his breath.

After that, he sat down on our stone bed and scolded my brother, 'You have learned to steal from your own house now. What other embarrassing things will you are possibly doing in the future? You should be beaten to death, you shameless thief!'

That night, my mother and I hugged my brother. His body was full of wounds from the beating but he never shed a single tear. In the middle of the night, all of sudden, I cried out loudly. My brother covered my mouth with his little hand and said, Sis, now don't cry anymore. Everything has happened.'

I still hate myself for not having enough courage to admit what I did. Years went by, but the incident still seemed like it just happened yesterday. I will never forget my brother's expression when he protected me.

That year, my brother was 8 years old and I was 11 years old.

When my brother was in his last year of secondary school, he was accepted in an upper secondary school in the central. At the same time, I was accepted into a university in the province. That night, father squatted in the yard, smoking, packet by packet. I could hear him ask my mother,

'Both of our children, they have good results? Very good results?'

Mother wiped off her tears and sighed,' What is the use? How can we possibly finance both of them?'

At that time, my brother walked out, he stood in front of father and said, 'Dad, I don't want to continue my study anymore, I have read enough books.'

Father swung his hand and slapped my brother on his face.

'Why do you have a spirit so damn weak? Even if it means I have to beg for money on the streets, I will send you two to school until you have both finished your studies!'

And then, he started to knock on every house in the village to borrow money. I stuck out my hand as gently as I can to my brother's swollen face, and told him, 'A boy has to continue his study; if not; he will not be able to overcome this poverty we are experiencing. ' I, on the other hand, had decided not to further my study at the university. Nobody knew that on the next day, before dawn, my brother left the house with a few pieces of worn-out clothes and a few dry beans. He sneaked to my side of the bed and left a note on my pillow;

'Sis, getting into a university is not easy. I will go find a job and I will send money to you.'

I held the note while sitting on my bed, and cried until I lost my voice. That year, my brother was 17 years old; I was 20 years old.

With the money father borrowed from the whole village, and the money my brother earned from carrying cement on his back at a construction site, finally, I managed to get to the third year of my study in the university. One day, while I was studying in my room, my roommate came in and told me,

'There's a villager waiting for you outside!'

Why would there be a villager looking for me? I walked out, and I saw my brother from afar. His whole body was covered with dirt, dust, cement and sand.

I asked him, 'Why did you not tell my roommate that you are my brother?'

He replied with a smile, ” Look at my appearance. What will they think if they would know that I am your brother? Won't they laugh at you?”

I felt so touched, and tears filled my eyes. I swept away dirt and dust from my brother's body. And told him with a lump in my throat, 'I don't care what people would say! You are my brother no matter what your appearance is?'

From his pocket, he took out a butterfly hair clip. He put it on my hair and said, 'I saw all the girls in town are wearing it. So, I think you should also have one.'

I could not hold back myself anymore. I pulled my brother into my arms and cried. That year, my brother was 20 years old; I was 23 years old.

I noticed that the broken window was repaired the first time I brought my boyfriend home. The house was scrubbed cleaned.

After my boyfriend left, I danced like a little girl in front of my mother, 'Mom, you didn't have to spend so much time cleaning the house!' But she told me with a smile,

'It was your brother who went home early to clean the house. Didn't you see the wound on his hand? He hurt his hand while he was replacing the window.'

I went into my brother's bedroom. Looking at his thin face, I felt like hundreds of needles pricked in my heart. I applied some ointment on his wound and put a bandage on it, 'Does it hurt?' I asked him..

'No, it doesn't hurt. You know, when at the construction site, stones keep falling on my feet ...Even that could not stop me from working.'

In the middle of the sentence, he stopped. I turned my back on him and tears rolled down my face. That year, my brother was 23 years old; I was 26 years old.

After I got married, I lived in the city. Many times my husband invited my parents to come and live with us, but they didn't want.

They said, once they left the village, they wouldn't know what to do. My brother agreed with them. He said, 'Sis, you just take care of your parents-in-law. I will take care of Mom and Dad here.'

My husband became the director of his factory. We asked my brother to accept the offer of being the manager in the maintenance department. But my brother rejected the offer. He insisted on working as a repairman instead for a start.

One day, my brother was on the top of a ladder repairing a cable, when he got electrocuted, and was sent to the hospital.

My husband and I visited him at the hospital. Looking at the plaster cast on his leg, I grumbled, 'Why did you reject the offer of being a manager? Managers won't do something dangerous like that. Now look at you - you are suffering a serious injury. Why didn't you just listen to us?'

With a serious expression on his face, he defended his decision, 'Think of brother-in-law. He just became the director, and I being uneducated, and would become a manager, what kind of rumors would fly around?'

My husband's eyes filled up with tears, and then I said,
'But you lack in education only because of me!'

'Why do you talk about the past?' he said and then he held my hand.

That year, he was 26 years old and I was 29 years old.

My brother was 30 years old when he married a farmer girl from the village. During the wedding reception, the master of ceremonies asked him, 'Who is the one person you respect and love the most?'

Without even taking a time to think, he answered,' My sister.' He continued by telling a story I could not even remember.

'When I was in primary school, the school was in a different village. Everyday, my sister and I would walk for 2 hours to school and back home. One day, I lost the other pair of my gloves. My sister gave me one of hers.


She wore only one glove and she had to walk far. When we got home, her hands were trembling because of the cold weather that she could not even hold her chopsticks. From that day on, I swore that as long as I live, I would take care of my sister and will always be good to her.'

Applause filled up the room. All guests turned their attention to me.I found it hard to speak, 'In my whole life, the one I would like to thank most is my brother, 'And in this happy occasion, in front of the crowd, tears were rolling down my face again.

Love and care for the one you love every single day of your life. You may think what you did is just a small deed, but to that someone, it may mean a lot.


Have a nice day everyone! May this story inspire you in any way!

God is just so good and He's good all the time.
Remember, prayer does change things! Have a blessed day.

Please think of this.

'The act cannot be compared. It is only when you are in love and really love someone that you can go this length.Its good to be in love.'


Have a lovely week.

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

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salam

last weekend was filled with weddings.

sabtu was hanisah's sister 's wedding ( Musfirah & Syamil Salmi). mama, me & imang went to hanisah's mansion (dengan izin, cewah) . siyes rumah cam hotel/ resort bebeh~ huhu agak jakun la gue. ahad tu plak anak kawan mama @ shah alam. then went to jeram, tgk hikmat. well sbenanye nak letak gamba di bwh ni je, so i thot mayb had to describe sket2 .



terjumpe atirah si ibu menawan ;) bersame anak comelnye Marwan (yg sgt la rupe munze)

(sila abaikan muke pelik gue -,-)



eh yesterday kununnye had to do something progressive kan, so i started jogging altho a bit late, around 9a.m kot keluar rumah, afterwards did some sit ups , well terpengaruh dgn article kat yahoo, so i copied theyre sit up . adui kesan die.. agak terase kot a flat stomach, but together with muscle strain. hoho due to lacking of exercise la kan..so... skang jalan pelan2 je le cm org tua -,-;..

oh, ye. to those who's using maxis (bill) esp. the ones on family plus line, u might wanna check ur bill. check la whthr their calculating ur bills correctly. cuz i checked mine, and byk diorang tersalah kira, contohnye, mama's line , they didnt include in the family plus line. so if i call mama (wc supposedly free) diorang charge like any other domestic calls. this has been going on since the day the line was registered (march!) so.. i had to call maxis to fix this. nanti diorang akan tolak la bill semula. hee just some info lah ;)

Monday, June 23, 2008

"It is in men as in soils where sometimes there is a vein of gold which the owner knows not"
Jonathan Swift (1667-1745)


saya suke quote for today ni!!